paramour

noun
/ˈpæɹəmʊə/UK/ˈpɛɹəˌmʊ(ə)ɹ/US

Etymology

The adverb is derived from Middle English par amour, paramore, paramours (“with sexual desire or love, passionately; in a courteous or friendly manner”), from Anglo-Norman par amur (“in a friendly or willing manner”) and Old French par amur, par amour, paramours (“by or through love”) (modern French par amour), from par (“by; through; etc.”) (from Latin per (“by means of, through”), ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *per- (“to go through; etc.”)) + amor, amur (“love”, noun) (from Latin amōrem, the accusative singular of amor (“desire, lust; affection, love”), from amō (“to love”) (possibly ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *h₃emh₃- (“to grasp, seize; to take hold; to touch; etc.”)) + -or (suffix forming abstract nouns)). The noun is from Middle English paramour, paramoure, paramur, peramour (“wife; concubine; mistress; husband; male lover; darling, sweetheart; romantic love; sexual passion; (Christianity) Jesus Christ; the Virgin Mary; divine or spiritual love”), from par amour, paramore (adverb) (see above), possibly from a misinterpretation of to love paramour(s) (“to love passionately”) to mean “to love a beloved person”. The verb is partly from both of the following: * From Middle English paramouren (“to love (someone)”), probably derived from the adverb (see above). The Middle English word is only attested in one (possibly 15th-century) source and does not appear to have been used again until the 17th century; compare William Shakespeare's use of out-paramour in King Lear (written c. 1603–1606): see the 1608 quotation. * Uses from the 17th century onwards are probably derived from the noun.

  1. inherited from paramouren — “to love (someone)
  2. inherited from paramour
  3. derived from *h₃emh₃- — “to grasp, seize; to take hold; to touch; etc.
  4. derived from amōrem
  5. derived from *per- — “to go through; etc.
  6. derived from per — “by means of, through
  7. derived from par amur
  8. derived from par amur — “in a friendly or willing manner
  9. inherited from par amour

Definitions

  1. A person who is the object of one's love, especially in an affair or romance

    A person who is the object of one's love, especially in an affair or romance; a lover; also, a sexual partner.

    • It vvas no ſeaſon then for her [Nature] / To vvanton vvith the Sun her luſty Paramour.
  2. A person (especially someone who is not one's spouse) with whom one has an illicit or…

    A person (especially someone who is not one's spouse) with whom one has an illicit or secret affair; also (Scotland, US, law), one with whom a married person has an adulterous affair.

    • to run away with a paramour
    • I ſue not novv, thy Paramoure to be, / But as a husband to be linck'd to thee.
  3. A woman who is the object of a knight's love, and who he fights for.

    • It is the leaſt of his famous aduentures, that hee vndertaketh to be Greenes [Robert Greene's?] aduocate: […] He may declare his deere affection to his Paramour; or his pure honeſtye to the vvorld; […]
    • Chloris, the Queene of Flovvers; / The ſvveetneſſe of all Shovvres; / The ornament of Bovvres; / The top of Par-amours!
  4. + 4 more definitions
    1. God as the object of a person's devotion or love.

      • Clad you with yͤ ſilke of ſinceritie, with yͤ ſaten [satin] of ſanctitie, with the purple of probitie. Thus prune and pricke vp your ſelues, and God himſelfe ſhall be your paramour, ⁊c.
    2. To have an illicit or secret affair with a person, especially someone who is not one's…

      To have an illicit or secret affair with a person, especially someone who is not one's spouse.

      • [W]ine loued I deeply, dice deerely, and in vvoman out paromord the Turke, […]
      • [I]ndeed a daughter is better ill married, then vvell Paramour'd.
    3. Of loving, etc.

      Of loving, etc.: out of or through romantic feeling or sexual desire; passionately.

      • Because you love par amours, is it reasonable you should throw away your life and ours?
      • Wolnoth is bound par-amours, to a certain fair Norman dame; and, I trow well, prefers her charms here to the thought of his return.
    4. Used chiefly when addressing someone

      Used chiefly when addressing someone: out of or through devotion or kindness; as a favour or kindness.

The neighborhood

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sense glosses and etymology drawn from English Wiktionary · source · CC-BY-SA